Have you ever pulled into the parking lot at work, turned off the car, and just sat there for a minute? Nope, you’re not early. You just don’t want to go inside. Maybe you used to love your job, but something has changed. Or, you’re bored… frustrated, exhausted, or simply wondering if there’s something else you should be doing with your life.
If that’s you, you’re not alone, but before you update your résumé and start dreaming about your farewell speech, here are seven questions worth considering.
1. Is this a season, or is it time for a change?
Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.”
Every job has its ups and downs. Some seasons work is stressful, frustrating, or simply not enjoyable. However, a bad month doesn’t always mean you have a bad job. Before making a big decision, ask yourself whether this is a temporary frustration.
2. Do you need a new challenge?
Sometimes we don’t dislike our jobs. We’re just bored. Have you mastered your current responsibilities and need something new to stretch you? Before sending in your two-week notice, consider asking for a new project, an additional responsibilities, or an opportunity to develop a skill.
3. Could you change your role without leaving?
Maybe you love the organization, but not your current responsibilities. Could you move into another department and take on a different role? You might not need a new employer, just a new assignment.
4. What are the people closest to you saying?
Proverbs 15:22 says, “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.”
Talk with people who know you well and will tell you the truth. They may see strengths, opportunities, or even blind spots that you’re overlooking. An outside perspective can help you determine whether it’s time to make a change or approach your job differently.
5. Have you actually prayed about it?
James 1:5 reminds us that when we lack wisdom, we should ask God.
I don’t just mean praying, “Lord, please get me out of here by Friday!” Ask God for wisdom, patience, clarity, and courage. Yes, God uses prayer to change our circumstances. At other times He uses prayer to change our perspective.
6. What does your past tell you?
Think back over previous jobs or difficult seasons. Have you experienced this itch to leave before? Did leaving help, or did you discover the same frustrations somewhere else? Before changing jobs, make sure you understand what’s really making you unhappy.
7. Is it genuinely time to move on?
Sometimes the answer really is “yes.” Perhaps there are limited opportunities for growth or you just need something new. God doesn’t necessarily call us to stay in every situation forever, but make your decision thoughtfully. Consider your responsibilities, finances, relationships, and opportunities.
One Final Thought
You don’t have to love every minute of your job to be faithful. You don’t have to stay forever to prove you’re committed. Before you quit, take some time to think, pray, and get some good advice. Maybe it’s time for a new job… or a new attitude… or maybe you just need a vacation! Whatever you decide, hopefully you’ll soon be able to pull into that parking lot without needing a pep talk before getting out of the car.
Rev. Mike Wooton serves as senior pastor of Immanuel Church in Lakeside Park, Kentucky. He loves helping people discover how faith in Jesus makes a difference in everyday life. He shares practical encouragement, biblical wisdom, and a little humor along the way at RevMikeWoo.com.
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